Looking for Elf on Shelf alternatives? Been wondering What can I use instead of Elf on the Shelf? We have 10 alternatives to the elf Christmas tradition that won’t make you insane (and your kids will love)!
If you’re looking for Elf On Shelf easy ideas, might I suggest not using Elf on the Shelf because, YOU GUYS, it’s soooo much work.
I know because we’re stuck with our Elf on the Shelf named “Bud” (don’t ask) and I would love to have an Elf Shelf alternative.
(In case you want to still do it, there are now different versions of Elf on the Shelf and even some off brand elf on the shelf copies!)
Don’t get me wrong, our Elf is super cute and I really love the idea and the picture book and the general Elf on the Shelf story, but he’s…always there and needing help. (That’s all I’ll say in case little eyes are reading.)
If you’re looking for a new Christmas tradition to take the place of Elf on a Shelf, or alternatives to the North Pole Santa Claus and the Naughty and Nice list (or what some call “The Santa Lie“) try one of these!
Some of them are similar to Elf on the Shelf and some are good to use instead of Elf on the Shelf.
10 Alternatives to Elf on the Shelf:
- The Giving Manger
- Mensch on a Bench
- Santa’s Lazy Gnome
- Reindeer In Here
- North Pole Ninjas
- Star From Afar
- Angel on Assignment
- The Story of Funukkah
- Christmas Pickle Tradition
- Gnome in the Home
Keep scrolling to learn more about each of these and which will be the best fit for your family!
(Just don’t do that creepy Doll in the Hall. shudder.)
(Although it is one of the funny alternatives to Elf on the Shelf–twisted, but funny.)
10 Elf on Shelf Alternatives
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #1: The Giving Manger
If you’re looking for Christian alternatives to elf on the shelf, definitely try The Giving Manger.
In the kit you get:
- Small wooden manger
- “Straw” pieces
- Small “Baby Jesus”
It also comes with a book to explain the tradition.
With this kit, you place a piece of the straw each day for an act of kindness you performed. Then, on Christmas day, you place the Baby Jesus on the manger you made!
The Giving Manger is such a sweet idea (and it sure beats getting out of bed when you’ve forgotten to create some elaborate Elf on the Shelf games to surprise your kids in the morning)!CHECK CURRENT PRICE
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #2: The Mensch on a Bench
If you’re looking for a Jewish alternative to Elf on the Shelf, try Mensch on a Bench, who might look like your favorite Rabbi!
It was created by a Jewish father who wanted to help his family learn more about Hanukkah and create new traditions in their family.CHECK CURRENT PRICE
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #3: Santa’s Lazy Gnome
Santa’s Lazy Gnome is the “Lazy Alternative to Elf on the Shelf”(now that’s what I’m talkin’ about!).
“This gnome doesn’t move because its magic helps it to see anywhere. Gnomes help Santa with the naughty/nice list.”
This kit comes with a plush gnome and a picture book.CHECK CURRENT PRICE
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #4: Reindeer In Here
Reindeer in Here is the new HOT TOY for family Christmas traditions.
The reindeer is a “Christmas friend” sent by Santa to your child as a reminder that it’s awesome that everyone is different.
There’s no “spying” with this Christmas tradition because the dad who created it said he wanted a positive Christmas tradition.
The reindeer is meant to be a friend for your child that shows up in December and goes on all their adventures with them throughout the month.
The kit comes with the plush reindeer and a picture book and has won 12 MAJOR awards including a gold Mom’s Choice, Creative Child Magazine’s Book of the Year, and the National Parenting Center seal of approval.CHECK CURRENT PRICE
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #5: North Pole Ninjas
I REALLY love this one!
There are no plushies or “spies” with North Pole Ninjas.
Instead, it is a book that encourages good deeds during the holiday season.
Each child who gets the book is recruited as a secret North Pole Ninja—”selected for their ability to perform top-secret missions that are all about helping, giving, caring, and listening.”
Then, there are 50 secret Ninja tasks that can be performed throughout the holiday season.
(If you’re looking for good deed cards for all year, we also love these Sneaky Cards.)CHECK CURRENT PRICE
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #6: Star From Afar
Again, if you’re looking for a Christian or Catholic alternative to Elf on Shelf, this one is great.
Star From Afar is a nativity scene that is also an advent calendar that counts down to Christmas.
The star also becomes a hide-and-seek game as the kids try to find wherever you put it on different days.
The kit comes with a soft cover book, 15 pieces wooden nativity set, stable animals, and scripture cards.CHECK CURRENT PRICE
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #7: Angel On Assignment
Angel On Assignment is another great alternative to Elf on Shelf that encourages kids to help others.
From the book description:
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“Angel on Assignment follows the angels from the first Christmas to Easter– from the playground to bedtime and explores the ways guardian angels look out for boys and girls today.
With beautiful illustrations and rhyming verse, award winning Angel on Assignment encourages children to act as angels in disguise for friends who may need help.”
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #8: The Story of Funukkah
The Story of Funukkah is another way to celebrate Hanukkah.
The kit comes with a plush kid and picture book about Hanukkah (there’s also a girl kit).
From the kit description:
Celebrate 8 days of magic.
Take a family adventure with a Funakkah kid, make delicious Latke treats and learn what makes Hanukkah special.
Rules of this Jewish Holiday set:
If you are good every night and day, your new best friend will come out and play.
Funukkah dolls all need a name so please give your doll a name so you can play the game.
Then follow these rules for Funukkah fun and I ll leave you a present for a job well done.
Be nice and respectful to your family and friends I really like the message this sends.
Say please and thank you because manners are key. Everyone in Funukkah town agrees.
Clean your room at least once a day, especially before you go out to play.
Say your prayers like every good girl and boy!
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Elf on Shelf Alternatives #9: Christmas Pickle Tradition
If you’re looking for a tradition that is fun for everyone but super easy, try the Christmas Pickle.
You hide the pickle ornament on the tree and the first person to discover it wins (we always give a small money prize, but you can do whatever).
“This pickle brings a year of good luck to the lucky child who finds it hung deep in the boughs of the holiday tree.”
And, if you want, you can have the winner/finder hide the pickle the next year.
To this day, it’s the first thing that adults and kids look for on our tree when they come to our house!CHECK CURRENT PRICE
Elf on Shelf Alternatives #10: The Gnome In Your Home
The Gnome In Your Home is another cute alternative based on kindness.
The kit comes with a plush Gnome named Heartly, a book, and 30 kindness cards, along with blank cards to come up with your own kindness acts!
From the kit:
“The book tells the story of a group of gnomes who learn that they have a special gift of kindness to share. They find that even though they may be small, their kindness can make a BIG difference.
Heartley wants to know all about the kindness you are spreading at home, at school, and in your community!”
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One last addition:
I didn’t put this on the list because it’s pricey and it seems to only be available in limited quantities, but it seems really cool: Shepherd’s Treasure Advent Cards (with Plush Shepard) is also a cute alternative.
How To Get Rid of Elf on the Shelf
One last thing I want to cover is retiring Elf on the Shelf (especially if you want to do one of these other Elf on Shelf alternatives that are less work)!
If you’ve been doing EOS for a while, you can’t just have your elf disappear with no warning or reason for it.
Remember: You make the Elf on the Shelf rules!
(He/She’s not the boss of you!)
But, how do you convince your kids that the Elf on the Shelf funny and fun times are over and not to be sad?
So, what are some ideas on how to quit Elf on the Shelf?
- Promote your elf to be Head of Elves on the North Pole, so he won’t be coming back. (Gently do this in a letter.)
- Leave a letter saying Santa is running waaaay behind this year and needed your Elf to stay on the North Pole to help. Periodically pop your elf in to check in. (This helps prevent those 11 p.m. “OH CR@P! Forgot to move…” moments, too!)
- Write a “break up” letter.
- Maybe an Elf on the Shelf naughty list where your elf is in trouble with Santa?
- Have your elf tell (write) the kids it’s time to be replaced with someone who will teach them new things (like kindness with the Gnomes or learning about Hanukkah with the Mensch).
- Technology has arrived! Now your elf doesn’t need to fly down every night, he/she has a Santa Spy cam on the tree and checks in from there!
- Prepare your kids by making this the last year! Write an Elf on the Shelf return letter explaining that this will be the last year and why. (Get creative!)