Homeschool social groups: Feeling isolated and looking for a home school network or wondering how to socialize homeschoolers? Tired of searching local homeschool groups near me and finding no opportunities to socialize homeschoolers? We’ll talk about homeschool socialization and does homeschool make you socially awkward, is homeschooling anti-social, what are homeschool support groups (and the confusion between support groups and co-ops), unique ways to find favorite social activities for homeschoolers and how to meet other like-minded homeschool students!
Homeschool Social Groups: How do I meet other homeschoolers?
Homeschooling friends are important! Finding homeschool social groups, building homeschool networks, and working on social skills for kids may be one of the biggest questions people have about homeschooled children.
And, it’s definitely one of the phrases that homeschooling parents hear the most, especially when others are asking about their homeschooling journey.
(As long as we homeschool, I believe the social disadvantages of homeschooling and the homeschool socialization myth is going to be an argument we’ll have to battle.)
What the Research Says About Homeschool Socialization
Research from different education studies suggest that homeschoolers have better friendships of higher quality than those in public schools (or “conventional schools”). Additionally, research shows that homeschool students have a more diverse group of friends of different age ranges and can easily communicate with adults as well as peers of all different age ranges, stages, and levels. Further research reports that a vast majority of homeschoolers are more socially involved and open to different social experiences, even throughout college and into adulthood.
[Sources: Vanderbilt.edu; U.S. Department of Education]
Actually, if you’re new to homeschooling or thinking about homeschooling, you may have one of these questions about the lack of socialization in homeschooling:
Are homeschoolers socially awkward?
Homeschoolers are no more or less socially awkward than other students. In fact, some homeschool statistics report that 87% of homeschool students showed better social, emotional, and psychological development than those students in conventional schools like public school. So, social awkwardness depends on a number of factors, including if a child is naturally shy or outgoing.
[source: NHERI.org]
Does homeschooling affect social skills?
A homeschooler’s social skills will depend largely on how encouraging a parent is in this area. So getting your homeschooling student out and interacting is important. However, there are research studies that show homeschooling students generally score higher in social skills than public school counterparts, including in areas like cooperation, self-control, empathy and even assertiveness.
How do you make friends when you’re homeschooled?
Here are 11 ways to help your homeschoolers find friends and how to make friends homeschooled:
- Look online for local homeschooling groups and resources.
- Search Facebook for homeschool support groups and online homeschool support groups.
- Join a homeschool co-op.
- Sign up for programs at local parks, nature centers, and museums.
- Check the library for homeschool class offerings or after school activities.
- Go to parks during traditional school hours (the school age kids there will be homeschoolers!).
- Get involved in a local church or house of worship.
- Join local sports clubs or classes.
- Volunteer with kids’ groups.
- Join 4-H, Boy Scouts/Girl Scouts, AHG, or other organizations like this.
- Connect virtually through online courses and activities.
Don’t miss our full list of creative ways to become socially homeschooled below! KEEP SCROLLING!
Homeschool Social Groups vs Homeschool Support Groups
This is probably a good place to talk about the differences between a homeschooling social group and support group and other groups for homeschoolers.
What is a homeschool group?
A homeschool group is a meet-up of homeschooling families for a common purpose. There are homeschool social groups / social networks, co-ops, learning groups, and even support groups that all have different goals and activities. However, these terms are often used interchangeably in the homeschooling community. Just be sure you are joining the group that meets your family’s goals and needs.
What is a homeschool social group?
A homeschool social group is a meet-up of homeschooling students for interaction and social purposes. These homeschool groups can include field trips, park days out, hiking, different activities, and casual play meet-ups for homeschool socializing.
What is a homeschool co-op?
Homeschool cooperatives (co ops) are paid homeschool organizations (with meetings and dues) that provide a school like environment using a homeschool curriculum or teaching classes or topics and provide activities. There are also social homeschool co ops that meet up regularly for social activities and field trips.
What is homeschool support group?
A homeschool support group is traditionally for parents who are seeking out fellowship, advice, and support from other home school parents and will also help you understand your state homeschool laws and regulations/legal requirements for homeschooling in your area. Many support groups today are a mix of social homeschool groups and support groups where families meet up, the kids socialize and engage in activities, while the parents also socialize and get advice.
How to find a homeschool group:
- Ask a homeschool friend about the groups they like.
- Search online for local homeschool groups by state and join the ones that list support as a description.
- Join private homeschool Facebook groups where you can get advice and support.
- Search Homeschool Events Near Me or local homeschool programs near me.
- Look for statewide virtual group and connect online.
- Start your own homeschool support group!
How do homeschoolers socialize?
So, how do homeschooled people meet and how do you make friends when you’re homeschooled students?
To be honest, how to build a home school network was one of my concerns before I started homeschooling.
(And, in my defense, it was before I completely understood the homeschooling process and still listened to what people who didn’t understand homeschooling were saying).
My daughter is a little social butterfly.
She never meets a stranger and rarely feels out of place in homeschool groups or any other networks or classes.
Since she is an only child at home, I was worried (in the beginning) that I wouldn’t be able to meet her socialization needs while she is homeschooled.
I honestly wondered things like, “Do homeschoolers have friends?” and “Are homeschoolers lonely?”
BOY HAS THAT SOCIALIZATION SWITCH FLIPPED!
Now, I’m so tired from running her around that I wish she had less socialization and outside activities.
I kid.
(Kinda.)
(Not really.)
(Whatever.)
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ANYWAY…
I tell you about our homeschool experience so that you no longer have to be concerned about your homeschool friends network!
If you’re looking for ideas on how to improve social skills for kids during homeschooling, don’t worry!
You’ll have plenty of opportunities and it’s easier than you think.
START BY checking out this list of ideas we put together for finding friends for homeschoolers and building your home school network!
So, how do I meet other homeschoolers?
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Do homeschoolers have friends?
YES! There are plenty of ways that you can connect your homeschoolers to others and help improve homeschool social skills for kids and connect with peers. However, facilitating friendships for homeschoolers often takes planning and persistence by the home school parents.
Here are some ideas on how to find friends for your homeschooled child (and yourself!).
But, remember, you are looking for quality relationships and not just quantity, so don’t overwhelm your child (or yourself) trying to fit in a million different extra curricular activities or homeschool classes.
(That was the voice of experience speaking right there. You’re welcome.)
Building Your Home School Network Idea #1: Find a local homeschool meetup group on Facebook.
I cannot even tell you how many Facebook homeschool groups we belong to!
There are homeschool groups for nature hikes, and for tweens, and for just our city, and for the state, and, and, and … SO MANY.
START BY:
Heading over to Facebook and search: homeschool group [your city or state].
If you don’t find a group for your city or area, expand the search to your state.
(If you find a great group, it might be worth the drive to meet up a couple of times each month.)
HOME SCHOOL NETWORK SOCIALIZATION TIP:
If one group doesn’t work out (we’ve all been there, trust me), don’t be afraid to join several of them and try it out again. (Remember, persistence!)
Building Your Home School Network Idea #2: Go to the park during “off hours.”
OK, I see you rolling your eyes.
“The park? REALLY? That’s your TIP?”
And, yes. It really is my tip because it’s one of the best places to not just meet other kids, but also meet parents!
(Remember, you need a homeschool parents’ group, too!)
Many kids will naturally gravitate toward each other when playing at the park (especially on the playground equipment).
Take your kids to the park regularly and if you see they are having fun with a particular child, approach the parent and exchange information.
(Or, make another park playground meet-up date on the spot!)
And, it works! We’ve met several of our friends this way!
HOMESCHOOL NETWORK SOCIALIZATION TIP:
Spend some time going to the park during the middle of the day (when public school is in session). You’ll be able to see if it’s all toddlers or if there are school aged children there, too. Chances are, those school aged children are homeschoolers that you can connect with!
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Building Your Home School Network Idea #3: Join the YMCA (or a gym).
Most YMCAs or gyms now have children’s rooms and even cheap and free children’s events and classes.
Try out a couple of different days to workout and see which days have the largest children’s room turnout.
After a couple of weeks, you can get a good feel for the families that come on specific days and your child may connect to some friends that way.
HOME SCHOOL NETWORK SOCIALIZATION TIP:
This is a double-duty tip! It gets your kids out interacting with others while you get a break to focus on yourself. Taking care of ourselves is something that homeschool parents often put at the bottom of the list. Don’t let that happen to you!
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Building Your Home School Network Idea #4: Join homeschool classes.
Many areas now offer a variety of homeschool classes and homeschool events.
(And many are even free or really cheap!)
Start with your local libraries and then search the web for homeschool classes in your area (or search homeschool programs near me) and then sign up for the ones that interest your child!
You’ll probably find a mix of academic, physical (like exercise and sports and hikes, etc.), and just fun!
Be sure to gravitate toward those that are of most interest to your child so they can meet other kids who have the same interests.
HOMESCHOOL NETWORK SOCIALIZATION TIP:
Homeschooling (especially in the U.S.) is becoming more mainstream and many businesses today want to grab a piece of that homeschooling (revenue) pie. If you don’t see a class, ask a business if they’ll add one! We’ve done that with several businesses who were excited to offer discount classes once we pitched the idea to them (especially when we polled a homeschool Facebook group to see how many were interested beforehand)!
Building Your Home School Network Idea #5: Volunteer or help with a community project.
Volunteering is a great way to meet other families with big hearts.
Commit to a place that also allows children to volunteer, that way your child can come along and also potentially meet other kids who are also volunteering.
For about a year, we volunteered weekly with a local shelter and my kid even got to be friends with some of the kids staying in the shelter whose families had met some hard times!
It was a great experience that my homeschooler still talks about and was really life changing for her.
Now, we gather a group of our homeschooled friends and volunteer at special events there once or twice each year.
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
Many places don’t allow children to volunteer for liability issues. Don’t be afraid to contact your local shelter, place of worship, food bank, etc. and ask. The shelter where we volunteered didn’t publicize that they allowed children to volunteer, but when we said that we would like to come into the children’s room and do craft and snack time with the kids once every week they allowed it! You can also check sites like: VolunteerMatch.org.
Building Your Home School Network Idea #6: Go to the library.
No matter what time of day we go to the library, there are always kids there.
ALWAYS.
(And we have a small local library.)
My daughter almost always finds kids to play with while she’s at the library.
We’ve exchanged numbers or emails with a couple of them so she can get to know the kids better!
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
If your local library doesn’t offer homeschool events or classes, ask them to add some. Come up with some ideas before you present it to them (or it will never get done!).
Building Your Home School Network Idea #7: Join (or utilize) a church, temple, synagogue, mosque (etc.).
Places of worship are great places for your kids to meet other kids — even if you’re not religious or don’t practice that religion.
If you’re there for worship, kids are in the same class, at the same time each week, which will allow them to develop relationships and grow friendships.
And, it doesn’t even matter your belief system! Places of worship usually have really great special events (think: Trunk-or-Treat for Halloween), open gym times, and other cool things like summer camps. They often acted as a community center!
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
Don’t shy away from homeschool classes or cool events just because it’s at a church or place of worship different from your own. You never know until you try it out and meet people from all different backgrounds. It may be a great cultural learning opportunity for your entire family!
Building Your Home School Network Idea #8: Frequent the children’s museum (and other museums and tourist destinations in your area).
Regularly visit the children’s museum or local museums and attractions in your area.
Many today offer discounted homeschool days and even free family days, which makes it a great time to meet other families.
(So, this tip doesn’t even have to stretch the budget.)
Don’t forget to trade information with the parents of the kids your child connects with during the trips! You don’t want to get home with the disappointment of, “OH! They were so awesome. I wish we would’ve traded numbers…”
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
Make a bucket list of places your kids want to visit in your area. Then, each week (or a couple of times each week or month), draw out of the bucket for a place to visit.
Building Your Home School Network Idea #9: Join homeschool co op classes.
If homeschool co-op classes or programs are available in your area, consider joining one (especially if it’s for social events or field trips).
Homeschool co ops are generally organized by a group of homeschooling parents for a variety of reasons: to offer classes, to organize field trips, to participate in group arts and crafts, to provide social time for homeschoolers, to create a homeschool buyers co-op to get the benefits of group discounts, and more!
You can easily form your regular homeschool tribe through co-ops.
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
There are homeschool co ops that are academic and also some that are for social events and other reasons. Be sure to understand the goal of the co op before joining! If you don’t know, just ask them!
Building Your Home School Network Idea #10: Host a book club (or other social club).
If you can’t find a group, then start one!
(Don’t be scared. In this social media age, gathering a group isn’t that hard!)
An easy one is to start a kids’ homeschool book club that can meet at the local library.
Or, if your kid is interested in something else like Pokemon, then host a Pokemon club instead!
(Or, whatever interests your homeschooler! Just ask your kid!)
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
You can post about your event on Facebook events, in local Facebook homeschool groups, and on NextDoor. Also, check if the library will let you hang a flyer on the community bulletin board (and look for other community bulletin boards, like in coffee shops or grocery stores).
Building Your Home School Network Idea #11: Go to public school events.
OK.
You may think it’s weird for a homeschool parent to tell you to go to public school, but there are SO MANY events through public schools!
Check out the local school carnivals, plays, or football, basketball, volleyball, and softball games.
If you go regularly, you’ll get to know some of the parents and your child will probably naturally migrate to the kids who are attending and even make some friends.
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
Most public schools post their event schedules (and school calendars) online. Just search the internet for schools near you.
Building Your Home School Network Idea #12: Join a troop that meets regularly.
Join American Heritage Girls, Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, 4-H, or a similar troop or group.
The great thing about troops is that you generally keep the same core of people from year to year, so there are opportunities to build long-term friendships.
And, it’s generally not just homeschoolers.
Your kid will get a chance to make friends from all different backgrounds and schools—probably homeschoolers and kids in traditional school settings!
HOMESCHOOL TIP:
Most groups and troops will let you sit in on a meeting before making a financial or time commitment. Don’t be afraid to ask if you can do that and see what you/your kids think about it!
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Building Your Home School Network Idea #13: Ask your friends.
Sometimes we forget about the most obvious, but…
Let your friends and family members know what you’re up to with growing your home school network!
You don’t have to say, “My homeschool kid has no friends.”
Instead, phrase it like, “We’re looking to expand our home school network. Do you have any families that would be good connections?”
Your friends and family will almost always have a “I think you will really like meeting…” suggestion.
